I feel there should be a class like AA for APPROVAL JUNKIES call AJA.
Why do people need so much approval from others on their day-to-day routine? where to eat, what to wear, when toi speak.
Here is a quote I think speaks volumes….
“We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.”
― Anaïs Nin
If one goes in with their own agenda and desires, one can only be responsible for the loosing or the winning. I guess, I’m sort of a control freak. Well, no I am a control freak. I want to cross all my T’s and dot my I’s myself unless both hands are freakin’ tied behind my back and my mouth is full. With that being said I have no understanding of the masses that seek the approval of others. Everyday I wake up I like to know that I am in control of one thing constantly, “me”. I am the boss of me….and the Creator is my superior no one else! Who is your boss?
We should all give from your heart, not for an ulterior motive. Trying to appease others expectations of you will leave you unfulfilled with self. If you’re purpose driven you have no room to ponder on what another is thinking or expecting of you…Stop and tell yourself this, “What you feel about me is your business”. Say this every time you walk pass a mirror or glass window and like everything else repetition is one of the keys to learning, execution and implementation.
At the end of the day think of it as finally letting the sun shine on you….today and forever.
The greatest weapon anyone can use against us is our own mind by praying on the doubts and uncertainties that already lurk there. Are we true to ourselves or do we live for the expectations of others? And if we are open and honest can we ever truly be loved. In the end are we all unknowable even to ourselves?
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