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SHEro….Meet Ms. Yasmine Arrington

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Good day Life Junkies…. It’s been a while. I have some juicy post coming your way.

Lets kick it off with my “SHEro” spotlight with Ms. Yasmine “Yazzie” Arrington- model, educator, mentor, entrepreneur and my SHEro!

What’s a SHEro? Women entrepreneurs knocking down doors, stereotypes and stigmas placed on us daily by a society driven by social media.  SHEro’s are passionate and committed to a myriad of non-traditional occupations and support causes such as education, philanthropy, fashion, art and culture. SHEro’s create their own lane and empower other driven women to do the same.

I had the pleasure of meeting Yazzie at a National Curvy Day Event at Lord & Taylor, last year. I was greeted by her infectious smile and overjoyed by her passion and confidence which filled the room as her and other women panelist discussed fashion and its current state versus the past.

Here is the interview with Yazzie. We must have chatted for hours about her accomplishments, upcoming birthday, fashion and life. It was an organic experience.

CCS: How did you get in the business of modeling? 
Yazzie: My freshman year of college (2011), I had a friend named Rachel who was a photography major. One day, she asked me if I wanted to be her muse and do a photoshoot with her. This was the first time I had ever participated in a photoshoot that was not posing for a school picture, haha. I picked out an outfit, purchased a wig and did my own makeup! We had so much fun shooting outdoors on our college campus on a beautiful Autumn day. Rachel told me that she thought I should consider modeling. I originally thought that this would not be possible, because all my life I had only seem straight sized professional models. That’s when I decided to do research online and I discovered what has been coined as “Curvy or Plus” Modeling. I discovered modeling talent online such as Liris Crosse, Samantha Lebbie, Christina Mendez, Jeannie Ferguson, Anita Marshall and many others. Anytime I saw that one of these models was offering a modeling workshop, I would save up and pay to attend – I was very attentive and took excellent notes. Each year I do a few test shoots with well-known photographers in the industry. The ultimate goal for me is to be signed by an agency, so that I may model fit and print for national chain clothing brands and for plus clothing e-commerce websites.
CCS: What are your personal goals with you scholarship foundation?
Yazzie: ScholarCHIPS Inc. is a non-profit I started in 2010, as a junior in high school. ScholarCHIPS provides college scholarships, mentoring and a support network to local DMV youth who have incarcerated parents. Since 2012 we have awarded over $100,000 in college scholarships to 29 scholars. My goals are to expand our mentorship programming and expand our programming to include local high school students.
CCS: Classic item every person should have (male and female)? 
Yazzie: As a female you MUST have a pair, if not multiple pairs of black leggings and blue jeans. Black leggings and blue jeans go with any top and nearly any shoe. They are nice and comfortable and good for when you are “on the go.” Male and Female alike, particularly business professionals, should always have a basic black suit, navy blue suit and gray or brown suit and white button up shirt in their closet. Simple business suits are appropriate for meetings, interviews, work, formal events, speaking engagements and can be dressed up with nice ties or bowties, and for women with nice camisoles, dress shirts or jewelry.
CCS: What’s do you feel is the key to great style? Who is ur style icon? 
Yazzie: To me the key to great style is being true to your own personal taste, with clothing that is becoming to your body type. One of my style icons is Queen Latifah. As a curvy woman, I always admire her red carpet event choice outfits and elegant gowns. Her makeup is always soft and becoming and her hair is always styled very nice.
CCS: Current obsession?
Yazzie: Talenti Gelato
CCS: Favorite word?
Yazzie: Overcome
CCS: Least favorite word?
Yazzie: Can’t (cannot)
CCS: How do you relax?
Yazzie: I relax by taking some alone time to do things I enjoy. Usually this looks like me lying in bed watching Netflix or reading a good book. My ideal relaxation situation is to be lying on a hammock on a beautiful beach looking at the sky and ocean and listening to the sounds of the waves, while the sun is gently grazing my skin.
CCS: Best gift you ever received? 
Yazzie: One of the best gifts I ever received was from a friend in college for my birthday. She wrote me a beautiful note in a Papaya card (this was the first time I had ever received one of those gorgeous Papaya cards) along with a TwoFaced bronzer and lipstick. I was so surprised and touched by the gift – the makeup was also of high quality. I still keep the card on my dresser to this day.
CCS: Best gift you’ve ever given to someone?
Yazzie: I have a friend in Ghana who is a soccer player. A few years back I surprised him for his birthday and bought him some new soccer cleats, a jersey, with socks and a new soccer ball. He was truly very surprised because I did not tell him I was sending it. That was the ultimate surprise and it felt good to make someone feel surprised and happy in that way!
CCS: Tell me a secret nobody else knows?
Yazzie: Well, I guess it’s not a secret anymore but when I was younger I would rock to music to help me go to sleep and I slept with a “blanky” up through my teenage years. It was washed so much, the cloth coloring faded and eventually all the stuffing came out 🙂
CCS: What’s your Guilty pleasure?
Yazzie: Talenti Gelato or Haagen-Dazs Vanilla Ice cream
CCS: How can you be contacted?

Yazzie: www.scholarchipsfund.org, www.yasminearrington.com

Twitter: @ScholarCHIPS  IG @Yazziespeaks
Thank you Yazzie for allowing me into your world. It was quite a joy to bond with you while I took my daily walk. I look forward to see what the future holds for you. Continue to shine star…
xoxo,
AK

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Feelosophy…

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KEYS101: Time. Use your time in the best way you can” Colossians 4:5

Time is our most precious resource. It’s far more important than money. We can get more money, but you can’t get more time. We only have a certain amount allotted to us in this life. We can’t make time, we can’t borrow time, we can’t save time, we can’t extend time. We can only use it. We all have the same amount of time every week: 168 hours. If we don’t learn to manage our time well, we cannot manage anything else in our life, because our time is our life.

God is watching to see how we manage our time on this earth to determine what he’s going to have us do in eternity. He’s giving us a test, because our life on Earth is preparation for eternity. One of Satan’s strategies is to get us so busy doing unimportant things that we don’t have time for the important things in life, and we don’t spend any time preparing for eternity. Satan doesn’t have to get us to sin. If he can’t get us to be bad, he’ll just get us to be busy.

I’m working on this everyday.

Prioritizing. And, simplifying.

I need to simplify my life and eliminate distractions, so God can use me. Don’t try to do it all. Do what matters most!

Peace & Blessings,

AK

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You got PLAID….

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You got PLAID....

Moschino crop top
farfetch.com

3 1 Phillip Lim jacket
$1,105 – harrods.com

Alexander McQueen cropped pants
$490 – farfetch.com

Vivienne Westwood Red Label velvet pants
$275 – garmentquarter.com

Topshop bathing suit swimwear
$44 – topshop.com

Moschino handbag
monnierfreres.com

Linda Farrow round frame glasses
$1,050 – graziashop.com

Moschino oversized sunglasses
$455 – bloomingdales.com

Out with the “old” in with the “new”

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Good Friday life junkies,

KEYS101:If you want to have lasting change in your life, you have to start with your body, and that includes changing the way you think so that what you let into your mind and the things you think about honor and acknowledge a power higher than you.

“Put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and … put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness”. Ephesians 4:22-24

Notice that there’s a putting off and a putting on. Your health really comes down to stopping some stuff you need to stop doing and starting some stuff you need to start doing. Stop putting negative, hurtful things in your body, and start putting in things that edify.

Stop putting negative, hurtful things into your mind, and start watching and listening to things that edify and make you whole. In the renewal of your mind, you’ve got to put off before you can put on.

Let’s say you go shopping (I thought this was perfect) to look for a new pair of jeans. You find them and take them into one of those tight changing rooms. If you’re wearing a pair of jeans already, you don’t go in there and put the new jeans on over your old jeans. That would be stupid, because you’re not going to know if they fit. It makes sense to take off the old ones before you put on the new ones.

You’ve got to take off the old before you can put on the new. That’s true spiritually and emotionally and mentally.

I’m working on this myself. We all are “works in progress”! And, if not start now. Spring is a time of “REBIRTH”….

xoxo,

AK

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Fashion.Fun.Feelosophy..feelosophy

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Happy New Year my life junkies! I pray for peace and blessings to be bestowed upon each of you this year and years to come.

KEYS101: Are we ready for 2016?

How many times have you thought you were ready for something, but you really weren’t? Oh wait, maybe that’s just me. Often times we think we are ready for that job, the business, the relationship, the new purchase, and the list goes on. When that very thing we thought we were ready for doesn’t pan out, we get discouraged, we, at times, lose hope.

Sometimes we don’t get what’s for us because we are still going through the “process”. Can you imagine getting what’s for you at the wrong time? For example, you want to start a business, well there are certain skills and knowledge you need to start that business. You have to experience highs and lows in your career, difficult bosses, difficult co-workers, various challenges, etc. Why? Because those experiences “mold” you into the business owner you are supposed to be.

You want that financial breakthrough, but it just doesn’t seem to be coming as quickly as you want. Perhaps the reason is because if you got that financial breakthrough, you wouldn’t handle it properly. We see it all the time with people who win the lottery and a year or so later, they are broke, or an athlete who makes millions, and ends up in bankruptcy. They weren’t really ready for it. When you are ready for it, it won’t be a “fleeting” thing, it will be a “lasting” thing.

Okay, here’s another example. You may be someone who has had several relationships, perhaps even a marriage, that didn’t work out or maybe you haven’t experienced many relationships, but you are ready to meet that person you can spend the rest of your life with. You think you are ready, but in fact, you aren’t. Those other relationships help you develop, help you grow, help you better understand you, help you better understand relationships, and when you have gotten what you were supposed to have gotten (in other words, learned what you were supposed to have learned), it will come. There are a lot of people in relationships carrying around unresolved issues, past hurts, pains, resentment, bitterness, confusion, and even a lack of self-love. Those things will destroy a relationship. So although you think you’re ready, you’re not. Timing is everything. When you’re really ready for it, it will come. Learn to appreciate the process.

xoxo,

VFJ

Aisha

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Fashion.Fun.Feelosophy… feelosophy

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Hello Life junkies!

KEYS101: We will all be hurt in this life. Many times we’ll be hurt intentionally by what people say about us or what people do to us. In fact, any time we read the word “forgiveness” we instantly call to mind certain heartaches, hurts, and problems from our past. The memories are still fresh because we’ve been hurt very deeply.

Because of how deeply we’ve been hurt, it’s hard to consider forgiving the perpetrators.

The converse is also true. If you don’t feel forgiven, you’ll have a hard time forgiving others. If you typically have a tough time forgiving others, you may not truly feel forgiven yourself.

Remember this: No matter what anyone does to you, you’ll never have to forgive any other person more than God has already forgiven you.

xoxo,

AK

P.S. Check out my online store…crazechameleonstudio.bigcartel.com

I’m not done with the store but, I’m not sure if I’ll ever be truly done- there’s always things to add, models to fit, sourcing to do, life’s highs and lows. I figure as long as I have a “to do list” I’ll never truly be through. I’m just proud of myself for starting the process.

Launch party and trunk show 2016. Keep pushing on even when you can’t see the light! I do. Everything is going to be just fine as long as you have faith in your higher power💋

Carpe Diem

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